Patriarchy is a very strange thing. Why should an individual’s sex create inequality? I was brought up in a church which clearly preached female submission. It was not as strict as many churches. For instance, women were not required to wear skirts. However, it was expected that a woman was to submit to her husband. It was also faux pas for a woman to preach. That was a “man’s job”. The Hierarchy was as follows: children submit to their parents, women submit to their husbands, men submit to God.
My personal belief is that female submission is just another way of saying misogyny; it’s a system based on distrust and mistreatment of women. Furthermore, it is a degradation of women’s basic human rights. Why should a woman ingratiate herself to appease her husband? Such ideology is deplorable.
Clearly, these biases extend beyond the church. I’ll never forget reading about inequality in the workforce in Sociology. My textbook started off by saying that there is a secret in our society that can allow you to make more money and be more successful with less effort. To do that, all you have to do is be born male. If you want to make even more money, also be born white and tall
Much of the social interaction between men and women has sexist undertones. For instance, we see the glass ceiling and the glass escalator in the work force. Women, when in positions primarily occupied by men, must take on masculine characteristics in order to attain the same level of respect and promotion. Men on the other hand, when placed in positions primarily occupied by women are often promoted rapidly. I think this is because people associate masculinity with power and competitiveness and femininity with nurturing and caring.
What I learned from Bruce Kokopeli and George Lakey’s essay merely reaffirmed my beliefs and understanding of sexism in contemporary society. This is a cause that I would be willing to fight for. I cannot stand to see such a violation of human rights.