Women throughout history have been perceived as weak. They have been socialized into roles of submission and victimization. I don’t say that to sound sexist, nor do I agree that weakness is characteristic of women; but society as a whole has typically believed that women are in some way inferior to men in that they are in some need of protection. This view has enabled women to play the role of victim, because it has been in accordance with society’s views, thus giving them certain sway in the decisions of men. This façade of weakness has at times brought women great influence. However, it has also made it difficult to gain roles of leadership and power.
In “Refusing to be a Victim” the author was taken aback by the thought of women as victims. She grew up in the south and the black women she was raised around were emotionally strong, knowledgeable individuals who refused to act as victims. These women were powerful; however they did not gain their power through the perception of victimization. Instead they gained power through mental and emotional strength.
Some women, “privileged-class white women” in particular were able to use a victim identity in order to get positive, nonviolent results during the civil rights movement. They could see that, as victims, they were less likely to be attacked by the police and assassinated, thus giving them a clear upper hand. In this case, using victimization worked in women’s favor.
The author further explained, “The image of blacks as victims had an accepted place in the consciousness of every white person.” I don’t know that I completely agree with that statement. Like in the case of women, people often held the belief that a role of submission was a black individual’s place in society. I think that many people did not view blacks as victims. They were not perceived as weak, they were seen as lesser. Whites saw them as a group of people not needing help, nor playing the card of the distressed; but as strong group of people, that regardless of their knowledge, were inherently inferior. It is in that belief that they moved out of the role of victim, and into the role of inborn subordination. That was also the reason whites had such a struggle with cultural solidarity, where blacks and whites could be accepted as equals.
Personally, I view people across the board as equal. A Caucasian male is not inherently superior to an African American female. As far as sexism, as a society we are thankfully moving closer to equality. Racism is a little more complicated. I think that we are for the most part perceived as equals. However, I think we as society have moved in the direction of reverse discrimination to level the playing field. I understand that they were victimized, but I am in no way at fault for what occurred and I am not responsible for fixing it by experiencing discrimination of my own people. Hopefully, racism and sexism will someday be obsolete and no longer integral to our society. We are at a point in history where people are getting closer to equality; but we still have a long way to go before we reach unity.